Saturday, May 15, 2021


May 17th is my dear friend Sassybear's birthday!  It's a milestone one this year!

OMFG, you DON'T know Sassybear?  You been hiding under a rock or something?  WTF is WRONG with you?????

Sassy loves bears (the human kind) and giraffes (the animal kind).

He makes the best damn cosmos on the planet (do not question this); NONE come close to his!

He loves his husband Jeffrey and his puppies Harvey and Rita Mae.

He crochets.  He's learning how to knit.  He plays the trombone.  He's a nudist.  He's an atheist.

He LOVES superheros (like The Green Lantern) and anything "Peanuts" (Snoopy especially).

He's OUT and PROUD!  He has a good job.  He owns a lovely home.  He can cook like a boss.  He's a great interior decorator.

His smile is infectious, as is his sense of humor.

Once you meet Sassy, you feel like you've known him your whole life.  He encourages me to live my life on MY terms.  He accepts me as I am.

Being with Sassy is a priceless joy.

I am proud to call him my friend.



  1. Happy Fabulous Birthday Sassybear!

  2. Happy Birthday Sassybear! 🎊🍾🥂

  3. S/b deserves all the best and ONLY the best for this day and evermore. Warmest, smoochiest hugs to him - as well as to his entire 'family' of four. Happy Birthday, Beautiful.

  4. Happy Bday, Sassybear, and enjoy your Milestone!

  5. Happy BD, Sassybear. You my kind of peeps. And Anne Marie! Thank you for Sylvester. A queen bee. THE queen bee. Love her. Takes a true diva and a star to recognize another. Kizzes.

  6. That was a lovely shout-out to Mr. B.

  7. Happiest Birthday to Sassybear! Sounds like my kind of people: naked, giraffes, hubby, puppies, diggin' on the Anne Marie in Philly, which shows taste and discrimination. Of caaaawse, dahlin'! I gotta link up with this Sassy Bear you speak of. Sounds like my kinda people! Many happy returns of the day!

  8. He's also a Green Lantern. Beware his power!

  9. Wow. What a shout out. I waited until today to read this post and it's the first thing I read upon waking on my birthday. I am so touched by this, AM. You have been nothing but supportive and loving since the day I "met" you on line and then had the joy of having you visit me. You are a treasure and I am grateful to have you in my life. And thank you, all, for the comments and birthday wishes. It's very appreciated.

    Hugs to all, and extra hugs to AM.


  10. Happy Birthday (again!). AM- great to hear from you, hope you are feeling better.

  11. I think Sassybear sounds like a wonderful human and I should probably stop bye and say hello. What a tremendous friend you are, anne marie in philly.

  12. Happy birthday Sassy!! Love his blog. I love his love for life!

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